I’ve always viewed friendships as somewhat like fine china. Some patterns come and go with the seasons. Some are solid, never go out of style, and serve you many years. Good china will provide you a beautiful space to nourish yourself. But you must always keep in mind that no matter how durable it is, it’s still china and it will break if not handled with care.
I’ve never really had the ability to stop loving people after I’ve started loving them. A scene from “Hedwig and the Angry Inch” explains how love works in my life.
(HEDWIG:) “Seriously, Tom, yes. I believe love is immortal.”
(TOMMY sings:) “Look what you done … (bad chord) goddammit! How is it immortal?”
(HEDWIG:) “Well, perhaps because love creates something that was not there before.”
(TOMMY:) “What, like procreation?”
(HEDWIG:) “Yes, but not only.”
(TOMMY:) “What, like recreation?”
(HEDWIG:) “Sometimes just creation.” Continue reading “Friendships, Loves, and China Sets”